tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3100788116354675609.post5363630916777189287..comments2023-06-10T10:25:57.118+03:00Comments on Blue Abaya: My Saudi Wedding CeremonyLaylahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09517032571160920075noreply@blogger.comBlogger42125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3100788116354675609.post-74883527365994170802012-12-19T17:12:25.594+03:002012-12-19T17:12:25.594+03:00Salam :) You know, I think they found your reques...Salam :) You know, I think they found your request strange because it's such a different culture...there, the women have families to take care of them if they get divorced. I agree with your thinking, and although we didn't do the same in our nikah, my husband and I agreed that we will make a provision for it in the event of his death, since the standard in his country is to follow the Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3100788116354675609.post-87511413020132832372012-12-17T19:09:41.141+03:002012-12-17T19:09:41.141+03:00salam!!!! mabrook habibti for being the first finn...salam!!!! mabrook habibti for being the first finnish saudi couple...really... i wanna know from which ministry did you go and was this in Qassim city???Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15813315423147661179noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3100788116354675609.post-32981017384111790172012-09-15T16:13:18.830+03:002012-09-15T16:13:18.830+03:00Expat and the city-thanks for stopping by!Expat and the city-thanks for stopping by!Laylahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09517032571160920075noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3100788116354675609.post-43066545812693250042012-09-15T16:12:46.715+03:002012-09-15T16:12:46.715+03:00Thanks, haha maybe I was :)Thanks, haha maybe I was :)Laylahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09517032571160920075noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3100788116354675609.post-53748125704222266652012-09-14T23:45:37.815+03:002012-09-14T23:45:37.815+03:00Amazing blog and post. You are making me wish I li...Amazing blog and post. You are making me wish I lived in Saudi instead of Kuwait. ;) Thanks for stopping by my blog. It was a nice surprise. :)Expat and the Cityhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15795529460413987359noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3100788116354675609.post-75454927117316773442012-09-13T01:21:15.633+03:002012-09-13T01:21:15.633+03:00Love this post!! And def. love your blog. You look...Love this post!! And def. love your blog. You look like you're making some gang hand sign in your picture though... sign for "we'll get the judge later". Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3100788116354675609.post-1556914244986724792012-08-02T00:10:24.063+03:002012-08-02T00:10:24.063+03:00no this was just the Saudi marriage ceremony.You t...no this was just the Saudi marriage ceremony.You think I would seriously post this if we weren't already? Think..Laylahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09517032571160920075noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3100788116354675609.post-22276267565496585362012-07-31T20:58:57.521+03:002012-07-31T20:58:57.521+03:00So you were pregnant before legally married? I don...So you were pregnant before legally married? I don't know if I missed something but isn't that haraam in Islam cos you both weren't married yet? <br /><br />I know it's a tad bit late!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3100788116354675609.post-80669075611717929132012-06-21T15:37:44.866+03:002012-06-21T15:37:44.866+03:00You look like a ghost on the picture... if it is y...You look like a ghost on the picture... if it is you! looolAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3100788116354675609.post-4633705471774758892012-05-15T15:54:03.496+03:002012-05-15T15:54:03.496+03:00I asked for similar conditions within my marriage ...I asked for similar conditions within my marriage contract. Marriage is only that a contract - and what some extremists fail to understand is that stipulating this condition does not make it "haram" for the husband to have two wives. He simply must terminate one contract before proceeding to sign two others. In theory, haram and halal, cannot be modified so easily.... Also, not all Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3100788116354675609.post-79486121856259906782012-03-07T15:18:52.116+03:002012-03-07T15:18:52.116+03:00And nothing wrong with asking your marriage to be ...And nothing wrong with asking your marriage to be annulled in the case of an additional wife/wives might I add just not that it be forbidden*Omani Princess (not Omani...yet)https://www.blogger.com/profile/11738377563210269837noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3100788116354675609.post-70360795701436755152012-03-02T02:32:01.567+03:002012-03-02T02:32:01.567+03:00MashaAllah and alf mabrook.
It is against Islam t...MashaAllah and alf mabrook.<br /><br />It is against Islam to say your husband can't have another wife though in your nikah---I studied this as Muslimahs can't ask for things to be made unlawful that Allah made halal. But demanding a high divorce settlement in the nikah agreement in case husband DOES take another wife is totally halal and women who are against the idea of having another Omani Princess (not Omani...yet)https://www.blogger.com/profile/11738377563210269837noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3100788116354675609.post-48409744939972790022012-02-25T14:01:40.209+03:002012-02-25T14:01:40.209+03:00U mean u were pregnant at the time of ur wedding??...U mean u were pregnant at the time of ur wedding??Or did i miss something?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3100788116354675609.post-88237229096827823272012-02-10T02:52:27.023+03:002012-02-10T02:52:27.023+03:00Maa Sha Allaah. Well said. This is the preferred a...Maa Sha Allaah. Well said. This is the preferred approach to an issue that one is for or against. May Allaah reward you for your sincere efforts, ameen.UmmAbdullaahnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3100788116354675609.post-75286433226095756092012-01-28T01:14:37.488+03:002012-01-28T01:14:37.488+03:00beutiful and unique site....
loads o stuff, a grea...beutiful and unique site....<br />loads o stuff, a great mix of confusions and profusions...:)<br /><br />just stumbeled on it searching historical sites.<br />need to spend more time here, indeed...insghtful and educational too<br />nice work<br />GOD speed<br /><br />dr saadatsaadat tahirhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16950866930103358032noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3100788116354675609.post-44937490494336675262011-12-31T22:46:32.437+03:002011-12-31T22:46:32.437+03:00Also, always nice to see people a) making their ow...Also, always nice to see people a) making their own tafsir when the sister making this post never did so herself (polygamy is allowed and you have to be fair but it is not just for a specific time or because of social factors only; it warns the man to be just in all matters between them that he can control but certainly does not warn them not to do so at all. A man is not going to be punished forAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3100788116354675609.post-91551417829549374752011-12-31T22:43:06.498+03:002011-12-31T22:43:06.498+03:00Shaykh Saalih al-Fawzaan (may Allah preserve him) ...Shaykh Saalih al-Fawzaan (may Allah preserve him) said: <br /><br />Among other conditions that are valid in marriage is if she stipulates that he should not take another wife. If he fulfils the condition (all well and good), otherwise she has the right to annul the marriage because of the hadeeth, “The condition which most deserves to be fulfilled is that by means of which intimacy becomes Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3100788116354675609.post-21344333818960950752011-12-31T22:42:58.608+03:002011-12-31T22:42:58.608+03:00Asalaamu Alaykum,
The ignorance in some of these ...Asalaamu Alaykum,<br /><br />The ignorance in some of these posts is astounding. I don't think we need to bash the shaykhs either. There is a difference of opinion and clearly, not everyone is aware, the immediate assumption tends to be you can't among most people, male and female. This could've been resolved if the sister's husband had had the daleel on hand in Arabic for the Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3100788116354675609.post-3089952103914866622011-12-14T22:06:04.681+03:002011-12-14T22:06:04.681+03:00Oh my gosh, girlfriend, you would be my lifesaver ...Oh my gosh, girlfriend, you would be my lifesaver if I lived there. I cant believe these judges consider themselves Muslims if THEY decide what conditions you can and cannot have in your wedding contract. It may be a mans "right" to have four wives, but the Qur'an specifically warns against that, stating that the jealousy of women is natural and, if a man cannot keep all the women Proud Muslimahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14579749597596552031noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3100788116354675609.post-64342802961334833272011-08-25T20:29:35.000+03:002011-08-25T20:29:35.000+03:00Hi Rosy Starling and thanks for stopping by!
Sish...Hi Rosy Starling and thanks for stopping by!<br /><br />Sishar thanks for your comment,we had the Islamic nikah in a mosque in Finland. Later after we got the permission from SA government, we got that approved officially in the Finnish magistrate.My husband did not need any papers for the nikah, but for making our marriage official in Finland we needed to fill in a few forms from Finland and my Laylahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09517032571160920075noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3100788116354675609.post-24297234619218404352011-08-23T17:15:17.592+03:002011-08-23T17:15:17.592+03:00hi Laylah!! am sishar ... you are so blessed!! i r...hi Laylah!! am sishar ... you are so blessed!! i really admire you!! what a lovely couple!! may i know how did you get married in Finland? is there a need for the "LICENSE TO GET MARRIED/ ELIGIBILITY OF A SINGLE PERSON TO GET MARRIED issued by the ministry from saudi arabia? thank you so much!! hope to hear from you soon.. :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3100788116354675609.post-35954429230625014852011-08-17T20:26:18.479+03:002011-08-17T20:26:18.479+03:00Hi!
I am impressed, you seem to be a very strong p...Hi!<br />I am impressed, you seem to be a very strong person!<br /><br />Best regards,<br />Rosy StarlingGolden Oriolehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12046869451634471170noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3100788116354675609.post-18617176784741185442011-08-08T16:02:40.488+03:002011-08-08T16:02:40.488+03:00This was our nikah, when you sign the papers and a...This was our nikah, when you sign the papers and agree to be married at the courthouse where women are supposed to be in abaya (and preferably niqab too), not the actual wedding party walimah..<br />Naturally women in Saudi also wear amazing beautiful wedding dresses at the wedding parties :)Laylahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09517032571160920075noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3100788116354675609.post-36653207262538557822011-08-06T15:45:22.099+03:002011-08-06T15:45:22.099+03:00Thats an interesting way of getting married. I'...Thats an interesting way of getting married. I'm Saudi and I'm about to get married. It's not the case with us I don't know why you got married this way. I mean we wear the white dress and the groom wears the black bishtChick Flick Journalhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05361039132320720277noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3100788116354675609.post-42950087321703354562011-07-24T00:03:21.545+03:002011-07-24T00:03:21.545+03:00It seems some commenters knew better than the shei...It seems some commenters knew better than the sheikh :)It's funny how he put it in our contract if its not permissable.<br />Some things might be permissible in Islam, it doesn't mean everyone has to do it. Muslim women can choose not to be in a polygamous marriage, it is not for everyone. <br /><br />Thanks smurfburkan for stopping by!yes thats the way it seems to go, unfortunately.Laylahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09517032571160920075noreply@blogger.com